You’ve all heard the saying, “Confidence is key!” This, my friends, is absolutely true. While some carry confidence naturally, it is also something that can be learned. If you’re lacking confidence or looking for way to boost your confidence, read on!
Banish Negative Thoughts
We’ve all been there; negative thoughts popping into our head at random times throughout the day. You might think you are powerless to control them, but that’s not the case. You actually have the power to control your negative thoughts. When you know you’re about to have one, or you realize you’re in the midst of one, imagine knocking it away with a tennis racket. Or simply repeat CANCEL to yourself until it goes away. Soon enough, you’ll have a much healthier, happier mind!
Wear Clothes You Love
Wearing the clothing you love is key to feeling confident. I don’t mean clothing that hides your body either, but clothes that make you, YOU. You should love the color, cut, pattern; everything about them. It doesn’t matter where you’re going or what you’re doing, but always slip into something that makes you feel great.
Write Down Things You Love About Yourself
RuPaul says, “If you can’t love yourself, then how the hell are you gonna love somebody else?” Start by making a list of the things you love about yourself, and add to it as you grow more confident. Write down positive things you hear about yourself, and try not to focus on the negative.
Step Out of Your Comfort Zone
Getting outside of your comfort zone is always going to be a confidence booster, even if it doesn’t seem like you’ve done much to anybody else. Maybe you could go on a trip alone, or even speak to a stranger you normally would not speak to. Make small steps to do this every day and you’ll go far.
Use these proven ways to improve your confidence and you’ll love the effects they have on your life! And also check out this new, inspiring song by my girl Demi Lovato called “Confident”
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